I was the same way, I have never had much facial hair until this. Boom 10 months and its 8.75 inches tip to tip. I suggest six months minimum is the wait time for handling. Weird as it sounds, the less you mess, the better it gets. I am regrowing mine (see
here and
here for the back story if you wish), and am into it 60 days. I have been combing the middle after the shower and otherwise leaving it alone. SWMBO (She Who Must Be Obeyed) is still not a fan yet as its a bit course, but she is supporting me for now. Again, the last one I had, I started messing around with at day 100 or so. I LOVED doing that but as I wear glasses in my back pocket (hind sight 20/20) it was not necessarily a good thing. So if you can stand it, don't mess with it too much until 6 mo (180 days).
Just my two cents as I am a regrower! It will fill in, give it time and love (love is all you need).
Kell